Talk:Emperor Wulie/@comment-7936242-20130805122214/@comment-7936242-20130805151259

It's just not simple as that, and besides, confusing does not necessarily mean that you'll automatically have to dislike the new genderal appearances of the persons in your surroundings.

Anyway, the situation you described above, is how you will deal with it, but that doesn't necessarily means others will do the same nor does it give you the way as to judge what's right or wrong.

With a gender doesn't come only your partner but also the people in your surroundings and yourself. How will others look at you and vice-versa? Which gender would you refer yourself to, your old one or your new one?

Anyway there are 2 kinds of ways people will deal with this:

1. You have people like you who don't care (?) about their new genders, and adapt to the situation rather quickly/eventually.

2. There is also a classical situation in which there is a "man/woman trapped in a woman's/man's body" kind of situation. You can't just simply decide as to whether people should like being the opposite/same sex or being with them.